

Two kinds of gifts will be offered this holiday season to the women in a marketer’s life (besides those that will be returned on Boxing Day and those that won’t): gifts that respond to a need and those that fill a want, or desire.
Items that fall under the first category would likely be purchased directly if it were not the holiday season. Instead, these purchases are put off so that the gift recipient has an answer – ski boots, a new pair of gloves, etc. – to the inevitable question: “What do you want for Christmas this year”?
Gifts under the latter category are intended to surprise and delight the gift recipient with something – a spa treatment, a piece of jewellery, a magazine subscription – that she’s unlikely to purchase for herself.
Why should a marketer communicating with women during the holidays bother distinguishing between efforts to sell gifts that address ‘needs’ vs. ‘desires’? The answer is that they might very well be speaking to women for the former and to men for the latter.
The XX Factor offers these suggestions for pressing the right buttons with audiences being targeted for gifts that address needs vs. wants.
Disclaimer: we are not suggesting that women never buy ‘wants-based’ gifts for other women or satisfy their own desires. It’s just that during the holidays, men are more likely to be trying to score points with wives, girlfriends, daughters, moms, etc. Also, research shows that women spend very little on themselves relative to men during the holiday season.

The XX Factor scoured high and low and asked women what they really want from marketers this holiday season. Here’s what they said without one mention of pink on the list:
If you’re marketing to women over the holiday season, chances are you’re dealing with two distinct challenges: showing loyal customers they’re not being taken for granted; and generating new opportunities with those exploring your category or brand for the first time.
Input from our InformHers
The InformHers is a group of women representing Six Major Lifestages. These women provide qualitative marketing insights on a variety of topics to Harbinger on a regular basis throughout the year. suggests that first time holiday shoppers are more likely to be making gift purchases, while loyal customers are more likely to be shopping for themselves.
With marketing and sales resources and customer patience stretched to the limit there’s added risk/reward when communicating with new or loyal customers during the holidays. Here are some considerations for each audience:
If loyal female customers are more likely to be shopping for themselves this holiday season, it’s relevant to know that they’re also spending less than men. On average, women expect to spend only $88.37 (U.S.) on themselves this holiday season, compared to $155.18 (U.S.) for men.1
Adding to the challenge of marketing to loyal female customers, is that a negative brand/store experience increases the odds they won’t return next year or won’t recommend you to others.2
So how do you maintain or grow your share of the loyal female consumer’s wallet this year and set a positive tone for your relationship in the year to come?
Research suggests that creating a memorable holiday experience for loyal women customers should include:
Loyal customers will weigh your holiday messages and behaviour against what they’ve come to expect of you year-round, so make sure they’re both ‘in character’.
For example, if you’re communicating your support of a cause, demonstrate that it’s a year-long passion vs. a holiday promotion and that there’s a natural fit with your brand. And with price expected to be a huge motivator this year, reserve some special holiday offers for loyal customers only.1
Even if a woman was driven to your category or brand out of holiday necessity vs. loyalty, she still represents an opportunity to build a long-term relationship. The risk lies in failing to understand her mindset or delivering a less-than-positive first experience.
A Deloitte survey found 38 percent of holiday consumers shopped in a retail store they had not been to previously and 45 percent shopped at an online retailer that they had not visited previously. Nine out of 10 of these consumers (93 percent for stores, 89 percent for Web sites) expected to add one or more of these retailers to their future shopping repertoires.
When wooing a first time holiday shopper into a more serious relationship, consider where she might sit on a continuum as defined by the perceived relevance of your category/brand to her life.
Then, ask some questions to help zero in on approaches that are relevant to women at different positions on this spectrum:
Low perceived category/brand relevance
High perceived category/brand relevance.
See the XX Factor’s Top Five Items on a Woman’s 2008 Holiday Wish List for more ideas for reaching out to women this holiday season.
Sources:
1. National Retail Federation 2008 Holiday Consumer Intentions and Actions Survey.
2. What Customers Expect Sales Associates To Contribute Toward the In-Store Experience – Presentation to National Retail Federation Conference (January 16, 2008), by Wharton School of Business, the Verde Group, CVS Corporation.
3. Maritz Research holiday retail survey (December 2007) – 49 per cent of women compared to 41 per cent of men reported sales and special offers would improve their holiday shopping experience.
4. The Hallmark Business Expressions 2008 national consumer attitude survey found 78 percent of respondents receive holiday cards from businesses and half of those recipients are more likely to do future business with a company that sends holiday greeting cards.
5. Bulldog Reporter PR University: “What Do Women Want? PR Strategies That Really Work to Drive Millions of American Consumers to Your Product or Service” (October 23, 2008).

With many studies revealing that consumers expect to spend less on 2008 holiday purchases, one bright spot is that this year more consumers who are online plan to make a holiday gift purchase online (55%) than last year (49%). Source: Burst Media Online Insights.
If you’re in the business of marketing to women (like us), these are significant figures, considering that more women are going online than men.
So what should you be doing to foster your relationship with women and to ensure consistency from Web site to storefront?
The ongoing evolution of retail means that marketers and retailers should be continually assessing how the customer experience is maintained across online and offline environments – particularly for female consumers.
The holidays present an opportunity for savvy marketers to leverage some of the intrinsic differences between men and women, especially when it comes to their shopping behaviour.